IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU

IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU               By Nelson M. Kilonzo

Life in its natural uniqueness offers a man with the most amazing gift-life. The world in spaciousness welcomes a man to an amazing privilege-existence. Intelligence and hard-work opens doors for any man in pursuit for success. The life and existence thus gifts every man in the society having an opportunity to explore, adore and love and use his environs. While the society gets down busy trying to stipulate ‘the ways of man’, it’s all at his best to make the most important thing in life-to choose. However much the society tries to form a way of life for everyone, we all are presented with the opportunity and chance to choose our own way.

Yes the society plays part in our choices but mark you that it’s the least to share our consequences. Every play has an ending, we all know that. Every consequence should aim at making us happier and better than we were when making the choice and so this shifts the handle to the choice maker. Our choices are (may be) influenced by our environs that hub our societies but it’s always best to pay less attention to those forces sorely because at the loose end our consequences will affect us most and much lesser our societies.

Everyone has friends that are tied close to them, those that one will always seek attention and compliments from. Those that one will ask for assistance from. Those that one sees useful when making decisions…etc. One may care lesser on how you got the friends but take a closer look at how well they help you grow, how good they are at company, good friends in deeds…

All that they do to us may seem correct to us, very important or otherwise. Remember they are the lager part of your society which will take the least responsibility in your failure. They will help you dig a hole and they will rejoice at throwing you in it. This means that although they seem to care about you, take a closer look at their interests in your success.

So, what I simply imply is that your closest environs (let us call them as they deserve…your ‘friends’) may frame and help in your failure but won’t be ready to help you take up the cross or help you carry it. Just to finish up, ‘man is the best answer to his woes and success’. Live your life, make your own decisions and carry your own cross ‘cause at last no one is ready to do that best for you as you do it yourself. Every man has one life to live. Live yours cause in life IT IS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT YOU!